Trauma Informed Systems – considered Worthy of Acceptance & Love | Or Not!

To be considered WORTHY of love and acceptance, how was the individual conditioned to BE or to Behave? What were they encouraged TO DO to be Lovable? When approaching an adult...

by Philip Be'er

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Trauma Informed Systems – Secure Belonging

This video explains the term, ‘Trauma-Informed’, and the importance of factoring-in the role played by Secure Connection when trying to understand a person’s...

by Philip Be'er

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There’s Always an Excellent Reason for DOING

In this short video I’ll walk you through a powerful technique that will allow you to reveal the hidden reasons why you did some of the things that you are proudest of,...

by Philip Be'er

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Guide to the Prevention of Emotional & Psychological Harms

This diagram captures the relationships between social-connectedness and social-harms like addiction, mental suffering and suicide. It provides a powerful tool for allocating...

by Philip Be'er

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Re-Framing Anxiety & Making it Easier to Get Off Meds

One powerful way to view anxiety is through the lens of connection|disconnection. We know that the pain associated with Protracted, Involuntary Isolation and Loneliness can...

by Philip Be'er

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