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Study the Learning to Love Curriculum Online

The Learning to Love Curriculum is available for study, online at UDEMY

At last count we have 460 students from 62 different countries enrolled

Click on any of the links, below to explore these online courses

Taking a Fresh Look at Psychology - Part 1 and Part 2

Everything that you'll learn in this course has an immediate, practical, life-transforming application.

The wisdom contained in the course is a synthesis of traditional wisdom teachings from around the world, contemporary insights into Psychology, and a deeper analysis of what makes humans human.

I've always been fascinated by how things work and that led me to a career in engineering, but my greatest achievement, thus far, has been the creation of a BEnome Map describing, in detail, how our psyches function.

Understand exactly what’s going on in your unconscious mind every time someone says or does something that feels so blissful, you wonder if you could ever get enough, why you sometimes feel a powerful need to completely avoid a person, and why you’re sometimes attracted to a person’s personality or behaviour, while at other times you feel repulsed by the same person … and how easily the person you're loving and the person you're hating can be You!

We take a close look at topics like judgement and self-judgement; what constitutes emotional safety, the relationship between social-exclusion and emotional pain; together with many other topics.

The richness of our human experience is constantly being reflected back at us in film, theater and video.

This course 'mines' a particular movie for the wealth of important information that it contains about subjects like Shame and Attachment.

This is a foundation course built on a series of journaling assignments that challenge the student to closely and non-judgmentally observe how the characters are interacting.

Students are guided to notice the manner in which various characters unconsciously control the social-environment; how parents inadvertently shape the character of their children, often in ways that they themselves would consider harmful. I could go on and on, because the subject matter is so rich, but you are invited to reveal the complexity and magnificence of this human 'fabric' for yourself.

I do need to warn you however that the film that I have chosen deals with potentially challenging subject matter that includes mental health, substance use, body image, homosexuality, pornography,  shame, death and suicide, so if you're uncomfortable, for whatever reason, with any of these topics, perhaps one of my other courses would be a better fit for you.

"There's more to see, than meets the eye"

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Philip Be'er

A little less than ten years ago, I took part in a personal-growth retreat that opened a door to massive improvements in the quality of my life. During that week I experienced more growth and healing than I’d experienced in the twenty years preceding.

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Philip lives on Vancouver Island, on the West Coast of Canada.