MY ROLE IS SIMPLY TO JOIN THE DOTS |

SO THAT EVERYTHING MAKES SENSE

FOR EXAMPLE:

HOW HAS YOUR LIFE AS AN ADULT |

BEEN IMPACTED BY YOUR RELATIONSHIP WITH PARENTS |

WHY HAVE HARMONY, CLARITY & CALM |

REMAINED SO ELUSIVE |

Philip Be'er

Keynote Speaking, Corporate Training, Facilitation, Individual and Family Counseling, Mentorship

Within the last ten years, I have developed Behavioural Loop Theory; expanded our understanding of ‘Shadow’; authored a manual for transformative behavioural-change titled “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment”; and worked with students and clients directly or through apps like Skype and Zoom.

‘Personal Compassion Maps’ and ‘Personality Spheres’ are powerful new tools for accelerating personal transformation and healing. Mapping of a person's Shadow can take as little as ten minutes.

THESE BREAKTHROUGHS RADICALLY TRANSFORM THE WAY THAT PSYCHOLOGY IS BEING USED TO PROMOTE HUMAN HEALTH AND WELLBEING

  • I'VE DONE

    everything I can, in this
    lifetime, to experience
    Freedom, Happiness & Love

  • TO DO SO

    I needed
    to know myself
    fully

  • I NEEDED TO

    accept
    every part
    of my Self

  • IT'S NOT SOMETHING

    that a person can do
    without HELP
    & SUPPORT

  • ONLY A HANDFUL OF PEOPLE

    are capable of
    offering such a high level
    of guidance

  • THIS WEBSITE

    is for those
    who are seeking such
    guidance & support

Bullying Prevention

Bullying Prevention

In this course, I take my students on a compassionate journey into the heart and the soul of a bully. Once we're able to understand what's causing one human being to torment another, the remedies become obvious and they become easily attainable.
The approach presented in this course is scalable - it's as effective when applied to individual relationship challenges as it is when applied to situations where millions of people are being adversely impacted by bullying.

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Understand the Psychology of the Bully and you're able to Prevent Bullying

I took this course. The insight looking at my darkness/shadow side and transforming how I view my "perceived" flaws was amazing. Taking a look at my insecurities as a parent and human in interpersonal relationships was transformed from guilt and isolation to strength and validation and........ Community...... I no longer question if I'm good enough. I know I am. I have truly released myself from the "behavioural loops" that held me back from moving forward and claiming the life I want.... Acknowledging the life I have created and how very far I have come. I am released from shame and guilt of doubts and past "learning lessons" vs "mistakes." I am a good mother, advocate, woman and potential partner for someone when the time arrives.

Healing Your Own Trauma

Healing Your Own Trauma

Using the same approach that I share in this course I've been working with survivors of severe trauma and our results have been profound.
This course offers a simple Blueprint that will help you to lead your clients and students out from beneath the shadow of their particular traumatic experiences.

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Understand the Psychology of Trauma and you're able to Heal Your Trauma

Cultivating an 'Abuse-Free' Future

Cultivating an 'Abuse-Free' Future

This course was created at a time when tens of thousands of women around the world were reacting to revelations of sexual abuse by powerful men, sharing the hashtag #metoo.
Questions were being asked about what women and men can do to prevent further abuse from occurring. There was a growing demand for systemic cultural change.
This course lays out a detailed Blueprint for Change, exposing the underlying emotional patterns that driver abusers to override the internal messaging telling them that what they're doing is hurtful and harmful.
The course applies to all forms of emotional, physical and sexual abuse providing students with a powerful set of tools for preventing abuse and for raising a generation of youth who are neither abused, nor abusive.

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Understand the Psychology behind Abuse and you're able to Dissolve Abuse

I've been the most depressed I've ever been this past fall. Working almost daily with coach/counselor Philip Be'er had been helping me enormously, and I think his perspective/approach could help you too. He's built on the work of Paul Ferrini (which to honest I wasn't particularly familiar with) and taken it (at least) one step further. It's really only for people who are ready and willing to take supreme responsibility for everything they say, do, feel and believe. Which as you are witnessing, most people are not and it feels really hard to be around them. Please give him a call for a free consultation and see if he resonates. One reason I really like working with him is he shares our common heritage and background, so I feel really understood and" gotten" by him. And he's a great listener and gives generously of his time. Work with him now while he's still available!

Dissolving Hostility in a Workplace

Dissolving Hostility in a Workplace

Workplace hostility can manifest as shaming, blaming, emotional, psychological, physical and sexual abuse, passive aggression, overt aggression, deceit, sabotage ... I'll leave you to fill in all of the manifestations that I've left out. The underlying reason for workplace hostility is rarely what it appears to be, and this course will direct you to look for the true causes because, the more accurately a problem is defined, the more likely a remedy is to succeed.

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I ONLY TEACH WHAT I KNOW:

LOW POINT   Although I was doing everything conceivable to be kind and loving, I was constantly being punished for being what my parents considered, a bad or a naughty kid

HIGH POINT   Discovering that the punishment I received had nothing to do with me (who I was, or how I was behaving). My parents were attacking rejected aspects of their own personalities (Shadow) that were being mirrored by me. Every parent does this and every child suffers some degree of harm as a result.

LOW POINT   Feeling desperately isolated and alone at various points in my life

HIGH POINT  Acknowledging the role that I have played in keeping people at an emotionally-safe distance so that they couldn’t hurt me. Dissolving all the shame I have been carrying so that I could no longer be hurt by any other person. Allowing connection and love to flow, and tapping into an abundance of love

LOW POINT   Coming really, really close to giving up on the fight for shared custody of my daughter because the protracted court battle was causing her so much harm

HIGH POINT  Being assigned a wise and experienced judge who immediately identified a harmful pattern of deception and control. In contrast to the judges who had been assigned previously (they had little experience with Family Law), Justice M. settled a two year court case in minutes. I continued to play an important role in my daughter's life, and she was given the opportunity to receive love and support from both of her parents.

LOW POINT   Spending twenty years in couples’ counseling, yet feeling powerless to prevent one romantic relationship after another from disintegrating, in spite of my total commitment to the creation of a healthy relationship

HIGH POINT  Learning that although the psychologists, counselors, coaches and teachers I was working with exuded confidence, they could only lead me as far down a healing path as they themselves had traveled. Most had at least as much healing left to do as I, if not more. Attending a retreat where the teachers were totally committed to their own healing journey and where the approach was so effective that I made as much progress in a single week as I’d made in the two preceding decades. (I went on to become one of these teachers)

LOW POINT   Struggling to sleep through the night or to get myself out of bed during those times when I was feeling the most depressed and isolated

HIGH POINT  Learning how to change the way that I’m feeling by re-patterning my thoughts and beliefs. Connecting to myself so deeply that I no longer depend on someone outside of me for feelings of acceptance, connection and love-worthiness. Bidding farewell to protracted loneliness and depression.

LOW POINT   Acknowledging my addiction to 'romantic' partnership (co-dependence addiction) and my uncontrollable use of sugary treats for emotional soothing

HIGH POINT  Liberating myself of my addictions and helping many of my clients gain freedom from their own addictions, compulsive behavioural patterns, and most significantly, their compulsive need to manage and to control.

LOW POINT   Recognising the anxiety in my own voice

HIGH POINT  Healing that anxiety and replacing it with self-acceptance and love.

LOW POINT   Feeling unworthy of payment from my clients

HIGH POINT  Healing my relationship with money and becoming comfortable with the value of my work.

LOW POINT   Living with the fear that I would never get to experience unconditional loving from a romantic partner

HIGH POINT  Meeting a woman of my dreams and experiencing 'Conscious' relationship with her

LOW POINT   Receiving the news that she had stage-4 cancer just as I was making plans to relocate so that we could reside closer to one another

HIGH POINT  Relocating anyway. Staying 'in the Present' while simultaneously doing everything conceivable to prolong her life, AND remaining relatively unattached to the outcome. Savoring each and every beautiful moment together and rapidly releasing my emotional attachment to the less beautiful moments.

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