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L2L* detoxifies the school environment, increasing emotional safety, for children and educators

* L2L - Learning2Love (Unconditionally)

Almost from birth, we've been taught where to direct our attention, how we're supposed to view the world, and what we're expected to ignore.

Well, that wasn't working very well for me. I was in pain. My pain came in cycles, and I couldn't find any way to escape it.

That's when I ran into some teachers who showed me a more effective way of  interacting with the world.

They taught me how to see the world differently, through their lens.

My pain soon vanished. It hasn't returned.

I was told that once I'd experienced this other way of being, all I'd want is to share it with others. That was true.

Looking below, you'll see a few of the visualization tools that I've developed so that others can be trained to use the lens that I am using.

Philip Be'er


We always have a good reason for doing the things we do, and a reason for doing them the way we do!


Character traits and behaviors that annoy, irritate or scare you the most belong in 'your Blue'.

You feel unsafe when exposed to them.


My BEnome Map can be used to identify the source of stress at any moment in time.

Lower stress means less conflict, less illness, less anxiety, less depression, less pain, less need for control and less addiction.


I took this course. The insight looking at my darkness/shadow side and transforming how I view my "perceived" flaws was amazing. Taking a look at my insecurities as a parent and human in interpersonal relationships was transformed from guilt and isolation to strength and validation and........ Community...... I no longer question if I'm good enough. I know I am.  M. British Columbia 

I know that not everyone’s ways of doing things work for everyone else...and that makes perfect sense to me. But when I find someone who does a thing that REALLY works for me, it’s still hard to imagine it wouldn’t be JUST THE THING from which everyone else would super benefit.     ... And I’m getting help, this past month, that exceeds, in terms of effectiveness for me, anything I’ve yet encountered. I call it shadow work. I think more of the world’s shadows could be effectively integrated/illuminated with Philip’s help.  N. Calgary

I just got off the phone with the extraordinary Philip Be'er, with whom I’ve been having powerful sessions in what I think is best described as Shadow Work. He’s identified an amazing and effective process and it WORKS SO BEAUTIFULLY!!

If YOU think you might be ripe for this kind of help, I highly recommend you consider getting in touch with him. I’ve already recommended him to many beloved people.  N. Calgary

"There's more to see, than meets the eye"

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Philip Be'er

A little less than ten years ago, I took part in a personal-growth retreat that opened a door to massive improvements in the quality of my life. During that week I experienced more growth and healing than I’d experienced in the twenty years preceding.

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Phone: 1~~778~~235~~2990

Email: Philip  [who is at]

Philip lives on Vancouver Island, on the West Coast of Canada.