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L2L* detoxifies the school environment, increasing emotional safety, for children and educators

* L2L - Learning2Love (Unconditionally)

At some point in my late teens or early twenties, I remember reading  "To Have or to Be?" by Erich Fromm.

The concept of 'BEING' had such a profound impact on me that, more than thirty years later, I spend most of my time helping people BE the way that they would like to BE.

I'm working, for example, with clients who have BEEN ANXIOUS for as long as they can remember, and would like nothing more than to BE something other than anxious.

I'm working with clients who have BEEN DEPRESSED, helping them to BE someone who is no longer depressed.

Some of my clients and students are sick of BEING ADDICTED, BEING UNLOVED, or BEING DISRESPECTED.

Now, with the help of the BEnome Map and other tools, they're mastering the art of BEING LOVABLE, BEING SOBER or BEING RESPECTED.

Almost from birth, we've been taught how we're supposed to view the world, where we're expected to direct our attention, and what we're supposed to ignore.

Those lessons, unfortunately, were not serving me: They were a source of unrelenting emotional suffering and pain. I tried to liberate myself from that pain a hundred different ways, but not one of those approaches delivered the relief that I was seeking.

Then, as I was reaching my breaking point, I got introduced to some masterful teachers who taught me how to dissolve my pain, how to alleviate my suffering and to foster the development of more loving relationships with my world, with myself and with realities that I'm unable to change.

My teachers were informed by great men and women who have mastered The Art of Unconditional Acceptance and Loving.

I was trained to view the world through The Lens of Unconditional Love.

As my training progressed, a lifetime of inner-pain and suffering dissolved.

It has never returned.

If you look below, you'll see some of the incredible tools that have been helping clients BE the way want to BE.

If you'd like to BE happy, healthy, and worthy of loving then click the View All Services button.

I'm here to support your quest for love, health, growth and happiness.

Philip Be'er


We always have a good reason for doing the things we do, and a reason for doing them the way we do!


Character traits and behaviors that annoy, irritate or scare you the most belong in 'your Blue'.

You feel unsafe when exposed to them.


My BEnome Map can be used to identify the source of stress at any moment in time.

Lower stress means less conflict, less illness, less anxiety, less depression, less pain, less need for control and less addiction.


I took this course. The insight looking at my darkness/shadow side and transforming how I view my "perceived" flaws was amazing. Taking a look at my insecurities as a parent and human in interpersonal relationships was transformed from guilt and isolation to strength and validation and........ Community...... I no longer question if I'm good enough. I know I am.  M. British Columbia 

I know that not everyone’s ways of doing things work for everyone else...and that makes perfect sense to me. But when I find someone who does a thing that REALLY works for me, it’s still hard to imagine it wouldn’t be JUST THE THING from which everyone else would super benefit.     ... And I’m getting help, this past month, that exceeds, in terms of effectiveness for me, anything I’ve yet encountered. I call it shadow work. I think more of the world’s shadows could be effectively integrated/illuminated with Philip’s help.  N. Calgary

I just got off the phone with the extraordinary Philip Be'er, with whom I’ve been having powerful sessions in what I think is best described as Shadow Work. He’s identified an amazing and effective process and it WORKS SO BEAUTIFULLY!!

If YOU think you might be ripe for this kind of help, I highly recommend you consider getting in touch with him. I’ve already recommended him to many beloved people.  N. Calgary


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Philip Be'er

Ten years ago, I took part in a personal-growth retreat that opened a door to massive improvements in the quality of my life.

In that one week I experienced more growth and healing than I’d experienced in the twenty years preceding.

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Phone: 1~~778~~235~~2990

Email: Philip[who is at]

Philip lives on Vancouver Island, on the West Coast of Canada.