To be considered WORTHY of love and acceptance, how was the individual conditioned to BE or to Behave?

What were they encouraged TO DO to be Lovable?

When approaching an adult or a child, using a Trauma-Informed approach, one of the things that we need to consider, when trying to understand what they’re saying or doing, or how their attitude to a person or creature; to an experience; or to themselves; evolved is what they were CONDITIONED TO BELIEVE a person needs to do, to achieve, to believe or to embody, to be regarded as ‘acceptance-worthy’ or ‘love-worthy’

I elaborate further in this short video:

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Philip Be’er

Supporting clients through the Dark Nights of their Soul

Author of “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment!”