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Learn how to wield the power of your LOVE:

  • to fiercely advocate for anyone who is suffering
  • to WAGE PEACE
  • to rescue our planet
  • to become THE model for self-ACCEPTANCE and for UNCONDITIONAL love within your family

Join us at this retreat and POWER-UP your LOVE!

Is this the right course for me?

  • Have you been trying to change someone’s life?
  • Have you already tried every conceivable approach?
  • Have you been experiencing what feels like push-back – The harder you try, the more resistance you encounter?
  • Are you open to investing in a strategy, proven to dissolve that resistance?

Extraordinary Content Packed Into A Single Weekend

  • NOURISHMENT

    For the Heart, Mind and Soul – Embrace the wholeness that you are

  • BELONGING

    Experience the Sacred Circle of Connection

  • FIND PEACE

    Includes a copy of the book “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment”

  • SUMMER JOY

    Plenty of time for swimming and for lakeside play during the afternoon break. Delicious meals

  • YOGA

    Stretch and Relax

  • LIVE MUSIC SATURDAY EVENING

    Inspiring Local Musician

  • What do these three-dimensional Yin Yang symbols represent?

    Each of the spheres represents a person. We are all born with the potential to feel every conceivable emotion and to embody every imaginable personality trait.
  • Why are there different words on each sphere?

    The specific arrangement of emotions and traits in your Blue and your Yellow represent your unconscious responses to the (interpersonal) dynamics in your family and in your environment.
  • Can two people have identical spheres?

    Your Personality Sphere is as unique as your fingerprint!

As an adult, it is nearly impossible to change who you are ... until you've learned how to accept and to love your Blue as much as your Yellow!

How can these spheres help me to overcome my struggles?

Most interpersonal challenges are the result of:

⇒ Our encounters with someone else’s Blue

⇒ Their encounters with our Blue

⇒ Rejecting our own Blue

Shift Your Relationship with Your BLUE and LIVE a LIFE that is FREE from STRUGGLE!

Philip Be'er

The Learning to Love Curriculum

A little less than ten years ago, I took part in a personal-growth retreat that opened a door to massive improvements in the quality of my life. During that week I experienced more growth and healing than I’d experienced in the twenty years proceeding.

I had grown up in what felt, to me, like a ‘domestic’ warzone and over the years, had invested thousands of dollars and countless hours in individual and couple’s therapy … apart from my relief at making so much personal progress at the retreat, I was exhilarated to discover that I could access tools and techniques powerful enough to initiate radical personal transformation on a timescale measured in years, rather than decades!

Needless to say, I devoted the years following that retreat to mastering these tools and techniques while applying them to my own inner-evolution or inner-game. Whenever an opportunity to improve  or to refine these tools and techniques presented itself, I stepped up to the challenge, eventually birthing Behavioural Loop Theory, elaborating on Carl Jung’s ‘Shadow’, authoring the manual  “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment” and more recently, introducing ‘Personal Compassion Maps’ and ‘Personality Spheres’.

I generally work with clients displaying symptoms of anxiety or depression, with their relatives and with anyone supporting them, and with anyone whose pathways to happiness and peace seem to be obstructed by unrelenting compulsions, by uncontrollable behaviours, habits or addictions.

Many of my clients are recovering from abuse and from other childhood traumas, from PTSD, domestic violence and suicidal ideation. In the majority of cases, the Learning to Love curriculum offers better outcomes than drug and medication based treatments. The Learning to Love curriculum is only taught by highly trained facilitators who are adept at recognising and counteracting the unconscious role played by their ‘*Shadow’ when supporting clients. The degree to which Learning to Love practitioners have integrated ‘Shadow’ elements, differentiates us from those healing professionals and practitioners remain reactive when they encounter elements of their own shadow in the clients they serve. (*Your shadow is visible in the Blue section of your Personality Sphere)

I strongly encourage anyone who finds herself/himself a point in life where transformative change can no longer be deferred, to invest heavily in freedom, self-acceptance and happiness by fully embracing the Learning to Love Curriculum revolution, now.

Jenna Forster

Your Inner Game

To anyone looking in, Jenna Forster’s family appeared commonplace, and yet subtle interpersonal dynamics within her birth family came close to costing Jenna, a mother of two young boys, her life. Growing up, Jenna felt that she constantly needed to prove she was ‘enough’, while living the emotionally exhausting life of a compulsive ‘people-pleaser’. Jenna put the needs of her employers, colleagues and her romantic partners before her own, rising to positions of authority and responsibility, while never really able to appreciate her remarkable accomplishments or to feel a sense of worthiness.

One day, Jenna’s system crashed. A debilitating infection, the result of a tick bite, brought this ultra-achiever crashing to her knees. Jenna’s immune system was so depleted by the time she fell ill that conventional allopathic medicine could do nothing for her.

Terrified for the future of her children and for her own welfare, Jenna was forced to confront her lifestyle and her priorities. Trained in Leadership Coaching, Jenna turned what she was teaching, inward, and began unraveling a story of how her people-pleasing-aptitude and her workaholism were in-fact survival strategies.  Over the years they’d enabled her to survive the challenges present in her family’s unhealthy interpersonal dynamics.

These, formerly, life-saving adaptations had stopped protecting her years earlier and had mutated, eventually threatening her very survival. Eschewing medicines that were now making her sicker, Jenna sought a different solution which included mentorship in the ‘Learning to Love’ Curriculum and working with a talented Naturopathic Doctor. This combination of approaches has enabled Jenna to improve her health, transcending her physical and her emotional scarring and liberating her from the harmful patterns of her past.

In 2016, Jenna began synthesising her studies in Leadership Coaching with the ‘Learning to Love’ Curriculum and her growing understanding of the body-mind connection.

Changing Lives

I took this course. The insight looking at my darkness/shadow side and transforming how I view my "perceived" flaws was amazing. Taking a look at my insecurities as a parent and human in interpersonal relationships was transformed from guilt and isolation to strength and validation and........ Community...... I no longer question if I'm good enough. I know I am. I have truly released myself from the "behavioural loops" that held me back from moving forward and claiming the life I want.... Acknowledging the life I have created and how very far I have come. I am released from shame and guilt of doubts and past "learning lessons" vs "mistakes." I am a good mother, advocate, woman and potential partner for someone when the time arrives.

M. Coombs

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