Eight Week Course in Parksville

with Philip Be’er - Author of “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment

If you:

  • are a survivor of childhood traumas
  • someone who has experienced painful loss
  • someone who has survived a life-disrupting event

…this course will free you from your past!

Philip Be’er is a Seeker, an Author and a Mentor, recognised for developing Behavioural Loop Theory and for describing a pivotal relationship between Shame and Attachment/Love/Acceptance. Philip’s unconventional approach to the transformation of persistent habits, depression, anxiety, addiction, bullying and suicide has proven to be simple, effective, rapid and inexpensive.

Based on "The Learning to Love Curriculum" this eight-week course addresses the following topics and more:

  • Conditional Acceptance – Conditional Love;
  • Irrational Behaviour;
  • Feelings and Thoughts are Related;
  • Vulnerability;
  • Connect OR Die;
  • Fight or Flight;
  • Cellular Memory - Post-Traumatic Stress;
  • Persistent Patterns and Emotional Habits;
  • Behavioural Loops;
  • Belonging;
  • Need for Connection - Fear of losing connection;
  • Futility;
  • Love = Accepted + Connected + Understood;
  • Control;
  • Avoid DOING, Avoid BEING, Act CUTE, Be LIKABLE;
  • Community;
  • Judgement;
  • Emotional Self-Defense;
  • Psyche Attacks Itself like an Auto-Immune Disease;
  • Shame;
  • Aspirational Shadow;
  • Soothing;
  • ‘Right’ and ‘Wrong’; ‘Good’ and ‘Bad’; ‘Safe’ and ‘Unsafe’;
  • Generation to Generation;
  • Loss of Identity and Core Wounding;
  • Follow Your Reactions to Reveal Unconscious Patterns;
  • Emotions are Our First Line of Psychological Defense;
  • Unconditional Self-Acceptance;
  • The “Love Comes from Outside of Me” Delusion;
  • Love vs. Isolation;
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    J. Ladysmith

    Interested in self discovery... consider gifting yourself with this local opportunity. I'm feeling gratitude for the chance to notice some of my patterns and learn the science behind my thought processes. Fascinating and life enriching. Thanks Jenna Forster and Philip for sharing your wisdom.

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    G. Ladysmith

    Amazing and life changing course.

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    J. Ladysmith

    Philip Be'er and Jenna Forster... thanks for offering this course. As a currant participant, I'm appreciating the opportunity to get curious about myself and how I relate to others. There is a great balance between digging deeper into our own personal stories and learning the science behind our decision making/ relational living processes.
    More great tools for my tool box.

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    M. Coombs

    I took this course. The insight looking at my darkness/shadow side and transforming how I view my "perceived" flaws was amazing. Taking a look at my insecurities as a parent and human in interpersonal relationships was transformed from guilt and isolation to strength and validation and........ Community...... I no longer question if I'm good enough. I know I am. I have truly released myself from the "behavioural loops" that held me back from moving forward and claiming the life I want.... Acknowledging the life I have created and how very far I have come. I am released from shame and guilt of doubts and past "learning lessons" vs "mistakes." I am a good mother, advocate, woman and potential partner for someone when the time arrives.



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(Up to 12 spaces are available)

(Installment plan available)

Please complete the brief questionnaire that will be emailed to you upon completion of your registration.

In the interest of group cohesion and safety, the course facilitators reserve the right to deny an individual’s participation in the course, prior to or during this course.

* I appreciate that it can feel intimidating to invest in a course without prior contact with the facilitator, so please feel free to connect with me, (Philip Be'er) at 778~~235~~2990 or by email philip[who is at]b-loops.com. I'm happy to spend roughly thirty minutes talking to you on the phone, or meeting in person, to determine if this course is really a good fit for you and responding to any questions or concerns that you might have.

Most of the time, that which motivates our thoughts, our feelings and our actions is a mystery to us. Nevertheless, there is always an important reason for doing what we are doing, and a reason for doing it the way we do. The Learning to Love curriculum opens, within us, a ‘portal’ through which we can observe, and understand, Who we are and Why we are Being the way we Are.

Reaching through this ’portal’, we're able to eliminate our impediments to health, happiness and prosperity.

Philip Be'er


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