MENTORING Dedicated, High-Level TrainingFor Passionate Students

  • Applied Love transforms working environments and every workplace and school should have at least one specialist in Love
  • Students thrive in a loving environment, yet how many educators do you know who are qualified to teach Secure Loving
  • It's fun to joke that adult's shouldn't be allowed to become parents until they've received a parenting license, but who's qualified to teach these parents how to Love Securely

Mentorship Opportunity with Philip Be'er

Residential or Long-Distance

Study directly with Philip Be'er, Author of Learning to Love - Your Guide to Personal Empowerment

Training is based on "The Learning to Love Curriculum" which is the foundation-stone for any education in Applied Love.

Students meet anywhere from once to five times per week, via Zoom or Skype, directly with Mr. Be'er.

Each session, (or conversation) lasts roughly an hour, exploring a chapter from "Learning to Love - Your Guide to Personal Empowerment" or examining examples brought forward by the student.

Within about six to twelve months, most students are experiencing a remarkable personal transformation, having applied lessons from the Learning to Love Curriculum to their own circumstances.

Whereas most academic courses are taught cerebrally, this course engages a students heart, mind, nervous system and soul. Training is complete when the student has learnt to instantly recognise their own Reactive Behavioural Patterns and has become comfortable encountering his/her Blue (These concepts are explained in the course).

Students who have completed the mentorship process are fully equipped to apply, to model, and to teach Secure, Unconditional Loving.

Prerequisites - Applicants need to:

  • Be open and ready to do Inner Work
  • Feel driven to transform their own lives and the lives of others
  • Be able to speak fluent English
  • Be unimpaired by any kind of substance
  • Be emotionally-resilient enough to do this kind of work
  • Be eighteen years or older
  • Be selected as a suitable candidate
  • Be able to afford the course (Cost is determined on an individual-by-individual basis that accounts for factors including Country of Residence)

I've been the most depressed I've ever been this past fall. Working almost daily with coach/counselor Philip Be'er had been helping me enormously, and I think his perspective/approach could help you too. He's built on the work of Paul Ferrini (which to honest I wasn't particularly familiar with) and taken it (at least) one step further. It's really only for people who are ready and willing to take supreme responsibility for everything they say, do, feel and believe. Which as you are witnessing, most people are not and it feels really hard to be around them. Please give him a call for a free consultation and see if he resonates. One reason I really like working with him is he shares our common heritage and background, so I feel really understood and" gotten" by him. And he's a great listener and gives generously of his time. Work with him now while he's still available!

I took this course. The insight looking at my darkness/shadow side and transforming how I view my "perceived" flaws was amazing. Taking a look at my insecurities as a parent and human in interpersonal relationships was transformed from guilt and isolation to strength and validation and........ Community...... I no longer question if I'm good enough. I know I am. I have truly released myself from the "behavioural loops" that held me back from moving forward and claiming the life I want.... Acknowledging the life I have created and how very far I have come. I am released from shame and guilt of doubts and past "learning lessons" vs "mistakes." I am a good mother, advocate, woman and potential partner for someone when the time arrives.

Contact Philip Be'er, directly by email or phone to schedule your intake interview.


Phone: 1~~778~~235~~2990

Email: Philip  [who is at]

Philip lives on Vancouver Island on Canada's West Coast

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LOW POINT   Although I was doing everything conceivable to be kind and loving, I was constantly being punished for being what my parents considered, a bad or a naughty kid

HIGH POINT   Discovering that the punishment I received had nothing to do with me (who I was, or how I was behaving). My parents were attacking rejected aspects of their own personalities (Shadow) that were being mirrored by me. Every parent does this and every child suffers some degree of harm as a result.

LOW POINT   Feeling desperately isolated and alone at various points in my life

HIGH POINT  Acknowledging the role that I have played in keeping people at an emotionally-safe distance so that they couldn’t hurt me. Dissolving all the shame I have been carrying so that I could no longer be hurt by any other person. Allowing connection and love to flow, and tapping into an abundance of love

LOW POINT   Coming really, really close to giving up on the fight for shared custody of my daughter because the protracted court battle was causing her so much harm

HIGH POINT  Being assigned a wise and experienced judge who immediately identified a harmful pattern of deception and control. In contrast to the judges who had been assigned previously (they had little experience with Family Law), Justice M. settled a two year court case in minutes. I continued to play an important role in my daughter's life, and she was given the opportunity to receive love and support from both of her parents.

LOW POINT   Spending twenty years in couples’ counseling, yet feeling powerless to prevent one romantic relationship after another from disintegrating, in spite of my total commitment to the creation of a healthy relationship

HIGH POINT  Learning that although the psychologists, counselors, coaches and teachers I was working with exuded confidence, they could only lead me as far down a healing path as they themselves had traveled. Most had at least as much healing left to do as I had. Attending a retreat where the teachers were totally committed to their own healing journey and where the approach was so effective that I made as much progress in a single week as I’d made in the two preceding decades. (I went on to become one of these teachers)

LOW POINT   Struggling to sleep through the night or to get myself out of bed during those times when I was feeling the most depressed and isolated

HIGH POINT  Learning how to change the way that I’m feeling by re-patterning my thoughts and beliefs. Connecting to myself so deeply that I no longer depend on someone outside of me for feelings of acceptance, connection and love-worthiness. Bidding farewell to protracted loneliness and depression.

LOW POINT   Acknowledging my addiction to 'romantic' partnership (co-dependence addiction) and my uncontrollable use of sugary treats for emotional soothing

HIGH POINT  Liberating myself of my addictions and helping many of my clients gain freedom from their own addictions, compulsive behavioural patterns, and most significantly, their compulsive need to manage and to control.

LOW POINT   Recognising the anxiety in my own voice

HIGH POINT  Healing that anxiety and replacing it with self-acceptance and love.

LOW POINT   Feeling unworthy of payment from my clients

HIGH POINT  Healing my relationship with money and becoming comfortable with the value of my work.

LOW POINT   Living with the fear that I would never get to experience unconditional loving from a romantic partner

HIGH POINT  Meeting a woman of my dreams and experiencing 'Conscious' relationship with her

LOW POINT   Receiving the news that she had stage-4 cancer just as I was making plans to relocate so that we could reside closer to one another

HIGH POINT  Relocating anyway. Staying 'in the Present' while simultaneously doing everything conceivable to prolong her life, AND remaining relatively unattached to the outcome. Savoring each and every beautiful moment together and rapidly releasing my emotional attachment to the less beautiful moments.

The Health Benefits of Love

  • Feeling Securely Loved is the antidote to Emotional Stress
  • Feeling Securely Loved eliminates the need for Anger
  • Secure Love is the most effective antidote for Isolation & Loneliness
  • Secure Love is Energising & an effective antidote to Chronic Fatigue
  • Chronic Sadness & Grief eventually dissolve in the presence of Love
  • Neck/shoulder aches are more common when Secure Love is unavailable
  • Troubles with Digestion can more often than not be traced to in-Secure Love
  • Secure Love cures Emotional Numbness
  • Difficulty Focussing & Attention Deficit are symptoms that often arise when Love is not Secure

Secure & Unconditional LOVE cures the following symptoms and conditions*:

*More often than not

  • Trouble Sleeping
  • Fatigue, chronic
  • Depression
  • Strong Cravings
  • Stomach pain
  • Eating Disorders
  • Anxiety / Phobias
  • Suicidal Thoughts
  • Difficulty in Relationships

We'll help you join the dots ...

and you’ll discover Harmony, Clarity and Calm

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