• Have you been trying to change someone’s life?
  • Have you already tried every conceivable approach?
  • Have you been experiencing what feels like push-back – The harder you try, the more resistance you encounter?
  • Are you open to investing in a strategy, proven to dissolve that resistance?

"To get the most out of every chapter, approach this book the way you would, a meditation."  Philip Be'er

"Learning to Love - Your Guide to Personal Empowerment" is available in three formats:

  • PHILIP BE'ER IS THE AUTHOR OF "LEARNING TO LOVE - YOUR GUIDE TO PERSONAL EMPOWERMENT"

    Standing upon the shoulders of some of our continent’s wisest teachers, Philip Be’er has developed an approach to healthful living that views the world through a “Lens of Love”. The first six chapters of Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment can be summarized as follows:

  • 1

    FEELINGS & THOUGHTS ARE RELATED

    What we know and what we believe shapes our emotional responses. Follow an emotion to the thought behind it. Then ask yourself: “Does that thought or that belief still hold true?

  • 2

    STILL FACE TRANSCRIPT

    Find out why disconnection results in emotional pain and discomfort. Watch "Beyond the Still Face Experiment" to understand why humans expend so much effort avoiding loneliness and seeking connection.

  • 3

    VASTLY DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES

    Adults struggle to grasp why children find it so devastating to have their feelings and their needs ignored. Isn't that odd!

  • 4

    VULNERABILITY

    As long as we are dependent on someone else for safety, belonging and worth, we remain as vulnerable as a one-month-old baby.

  • 5

    CONNECT OR DIE

    Although adults know that they're not going to die of rejection, that doesn't prevent us from feeling awful when we're rejected by a partner, laid-off from work or prevented from being with the people we care about.

  • 6

    SAFETY

    With all this in mind, it should make sense that we associate connection with a feeling of safety. When we're feeling isolated, rejected or disconnected, we struggle to feel emotionally safe.

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