FIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES – PREVENT BULLYING

 

FIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES – PREVENT BULLYING

Someone who feels:

1. Unconditionally Accepted (Accepted exactly the way that they are),
2. Securely Connected (attached),
3. Deeply Understood

Has no reason to bully another person

If someone is bullying, their actions tell us that they’re not feeling:

1. Unconditionally Accepted (Accepted exactly the way that they are),
2. Securely Connected (attached),
3. Deeply Understood

We can help a bully to stop bullying by:

1. Avoiding any temptation to judge them.

We can help a bully to stop bullying by:

2. Understanding that bullying is their way of protecting themselves from isolation!

Bullies KNOW (cognitively) that they’ll never get their needs met by bullying!

Bullying doesn’t make any rational sense.

Bullies KNOW (cognitively) that they’ll never get their needs met by bullying!

That’s why LOVE succeeds in preventing bullying, while (seemingly) rational approaches, usually don’t.
LOVE is also irrational!

To prevent bullying:

1. Convene a “Learning to Love” salon where people affected by the bullying can meet regularly to overcome their own barriers to accepting unconditionally using the manual, “Learning to Love -Your Guide to Personal Empowerment.”

To prevent bullying:

2. Invite both bullies and bullied to participate.
3. The bully’s (bullies’) participation is desirable, but change will occur even if they’re not taking part.

The L2L salons will contribute to a change in your family, business, or organisational culture, resulting in a deep appreciation of:

1 . The bully’s fear of isolation,
2. The Power of Love as a tool for nurturing inclusion and belonging.

We’ve written a comprehensive curriculum for learning to love:

“Learning to Love -Your Guide to Personal Empowerment”
Available at www.b-loops.com/love

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