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The role that emotions play in keeping us safeSeeing a beautiful flower, listening to sublime music, tasting a delicious morsel of food, inhaling …2016/12/30Uncategorized
Knowledge is Power – Especially at this time of the yearIf you dread the Holidays because it means spending time with your family, then I …2016/12/12Uncategorized
Are you bothered by people who are controlling?Inspired by Chapter 23 of “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment” by …2016/11/04Uncategorized
FIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES – Good Moms and Dads Don’t DisciplineGood Moms and Dads create a safe and a loving environment for themselves and for …2016/03/30Uncategorized
Where do Addiction, Recovery and Love Meet?Where do Addiction, Recovery and Love Meet? Philip Be'er, author of "Learning to Love - …2016/03/24Uncategorized
FIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES – CURE ADDICTION  FIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES  - CURE ADDICTION Dr. Ed Tronick’s Still Face experiment, …2016/03/16Uncategorized
FIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES – CURE DEPRESSIONFIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES - CURE DEPRESSION Depression, seen through the lens of LOVE: …2016/03/08Uncategorized
FIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES – PREVENT BULLYING  FIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES - PREVENT BULLYING Someone who feels: 1. Unconditionally Accepted …2016/03/07Uncategorized
FIX IT WITH LOVE – DOMESTIC VIOLENCEFIX IT WITH LOVE SERIES - DOMESTIC VIOLENCE I know that my partner loves me …2016/03/03Uncategorized
“What would happen if you let children choose their own food?”Children Choose: From The Dorito Effect by Mark Schatzker . . . perhaps the most striking …2015/05/13Uncategorized
Right and WrongPower based on fear and punishment assumes that there's a right way to be and …2015/04/30Uncategorized
Parents withdraw emotionally when children don’t ‘obey’ usParents withdraw emotionally without being aware of what's happening The things that we do consciously …2015/04/30Uncategorized
No-one ever spanks a child because of something that that child has doneNo-one ever spanks a child because of something that that child has done, even though …2015/04/30Uncategorized
Instead of seeing exes as narcissists!Stop for a moment! Instead of seeing exes as narcissists, we can see them as …2015/04/28Uncategorized

THERE IS NOTHING AS IMPORTANT TO US AS CONNECTION!

WE CARE MORE ABOUT CONNECTION & BELONGING THAN ANY OTHER THING!

Disconnection is the Dominant Cause of Emotional Pain

Restoring Connection Eliminates Pain

SIMPLE Psychology

1. CONFLICT
Conflict at every conceivable level can be traced back to individual fears of losing connection; not being WORTHY OF LOVE; or the fear of NOT BELONGING

2. SUSTAINABILITY
Our individual pursuit of connection and belonging is destroying this planet - our life support system

3. MENTAL HEALTH
REPEATED FAILURE TO CONNECT causes SENSE of FUTILITY that leads to DEPRESSION

4. TECHNOLOGY
We collectively own 4.61 Billion Mobile Communication Devices - Connection is THAT IMPORTANT to us!

5. PHYSICAL HEALTH
STRESS associated with our fear of losing connection and NOT BELONGING harms our body and makes us vulnerable to sickness and disease

6. DISEMPOWERMENT
Our individual need for connection and belonging is so powerful that we avoid "rocking the boat"

7. ANXIETY
Insecure Connection CAUSES Anxiety

8. IMPULSE
Creating Connection CURES ADDICTION

9. FAITH
RELIGION and GOD - BELONGING and CONNECTION

10. POWER
Our individual need for connection and belonging is so powerful that we relinquish our power to others

11. SOCIETY
We go to school IN ORDER TO belong

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