THERE IS NOTHING AS IMPORTANT TO US AS CONNECTION!

WE CARE MORE ABOUT CONNECTION & BELONGING THAN ANY OTHER THING!

Philip Be'er

Philip Be’er has developed a simple ten-step process to help people turn their lives around. Philip’s pursuit of Happiness began at the age of thirteen with weekly participation in a group of young academics searching for solutions to ethical dilemma. Trained both in engineering and youth work, Philip rapidly became aware of the harm that resulted when attempts at problem-solving focussed primarily on the symptoms of a problem while ignoring the underlying cause.

He realised, as a young man, that his most challenging problems were not related, necessarily, to his work. For as long as he could remember, Philip had been unintentionally sabotaging his interpersonal and his professional relationships and he felt trapped in a cycle of relentless pain, anger, disconnection and loneliness. Philip’s harmful emotional habits stubbornly persisted despite twenty years of (individual and couple’s) therapy. Then, in January, 2010, Philip travelled to Florida to participate in a healing retreat led by one of North America’s wisest teachers. During that week, Philip experienced more internal growth than he’d experienced during his entire life. Finding a mentor who was capable of identifying and addressing the underlying reasons for his suffering allowed Philip’s personal transformation process to progress.

Philip studied under this teacher for several years, while deepening and expanding on everything that he was being taught. His contributions to this body of work currently include the development of Behavioural Loop Theory and his discovery of a pivotal relationship between Shame and Love/Attachment/Acceptance. Philip’s innovative approach to the transformation of compulsive behaviours, depression, anxiety, addiction, bullying and suicide has proven to be simple, effective, fast and inexpensive.

In early 2016, in partnership with talented book designer and artist, Markus Fahrner, Philip published “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment”.

Philip lives in Parksville, Canada and is accepting new, long-term, mentorship clients from anywhere in the world with a strong internet connection. He can be contacted by calling 1~~778~~235~~2990 or by writing to Philip[who is at]b-loops.com.

SIMPLE Psychology

1. CONFLICT
Conflict at every conceivable level can be traced back to individual fears of losing connection; not being WORTHY OF LOVE; or the fear of NOT BELONGING

2. SUSTAINABILITY
Our individual pursuit of connection and belonging is destroying this planet - our life support system

3. MENTAL HEALTH
REPEATED FAILURE TO CONNECT causes SENSE of FUTILITY that leads to DEPRESSION

4. TECHNOLOGY
We collectively own 4.61 Billion Mobile Communication Devices - Connection is THAT IMPORTANT to us!

5. PHYSICAL HEALTH
STRESS associated with our fear of losing connection and NOT BELONGING harms our body and makes us vulnerable to sickness and disease

6. DISEMPOWERMENT
Our individual need for connection and belonging is so powerful that we avoid "rocking the boat"

7. ANXIETY
Insecure Connection CAUSES Anxiety

8. IMPULSE
Creating Connection CURES ADDICTION

9. FAITH
RELIGION and GOD - BELONGING and CONNECTION

10. POWER
Our individual need for connection and belonging is so powerful that we relinquish our power to others

11. SOCIETY
We go to school IN ORDER TO belong

My SIMPLE PSYCHOLOGY Mentorship Programs have been designed to teach Counselors, Coaches, Practitioners and Parents THE SACRED ART OF LOVE & CONNECTION in the hope that they will disseminate this wisdom

Six & twelve month private mentorship journeys into connection and consciousness with Philip Be'er, personal development, growth and healing 'guru' & author of "Learning to Love- Your Guide to Personal Empowerment".

Individual Mentorship