Philip Be’er has developed a simple ten-step process to help people turn their lives around. Philip’s pursuit of Happiness began at the age of thirteen with weekly participation in a group of young academics searching for solutions to ethical dilemma. Trained both in engineering and youth work, Philip rapidly became aware of the harm that resulted when attempts at problem-solving focussed primarily on the symptoms of a problem while ignoring the underlying cause.
He realised, as a young man, that his most challenging problems were not related, necessarily, to his work. For as long as he could remember, Philip had been unintentionally sabotaging his interpersonal and his professional relationships and he felt trapped in a cycle of relentless pain, anger, disconnection and loneliness. Philip’s harmful emotional habits stubbornly persisted despite twenty years of (individual and couple’s) therapy. Then, in January, 2010, Philip travelled to Florida to participate in a healing retreat led by one of North America’s wisest teachers. During that week, Philip experienced more internal growth than he’d experienced during his entire life. Finding a mentor who was capable of identifying and addressing the underlying reasons for his suffering allowed Philip’s personal transformation process to progress.
Philip studied under this teacher for several years, while deepening and expanding on everything that he was being taught. His contributions to this body of work currently include the development of Behavioural Loop Theory and his discovery of a pivotal relationship between Shame and Love/Attachment/Acceptance. Philip’s innovative approach to the transformation of compulsive behaviours, depression, anxiety, addiction, bullying and suicide has proven to be simple, effective, fast and inexpensive.
In early 2016, in partnership with talented book designer and artist, Markus Fahrner, Philip published “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment”.
Philip lives in Parksville, Canada and is accepting new, long-term, mentorship clients from anywhere in the world with a strong internet connection. He can be contacted by calling 1~~778~~235~~2990 or by writing to Philip[who is at]b-loops.com.