THIRTY DAY PLAN FOR CONNECTEDNESS |

If you’re currently experiencing uncomfortable levels of pain, stress or drama:

This training provides you with all the tools necessary for re-framing your experiences in a way that totally dissolves blame, guilt and shame, while eliminating inner and outer, conflict so that you can find immediate relief while steering your life in a direction that leads toward long-term health, safety, security and bliss.

  • I will assist you in mapping out the visible and invisible impacts that the situation is having on your health, your happiness, and your freedom
  • I will support you in determining exactly how you would like to feel, so that you can shift toward that goal with focus and intention
  • I’ll teach you my secret for expanding Personal Resilience by re-gaining unfettered access to every one of your denied inner-resources (only a handful of people on the planet have the requisite training to accomplish this and I’m fortunate to be one of them)
  • I’ll help you to transform your relationship with the situation you're in, with every person you care about, and with yourself

I ONLY TEACH WHAT I KNOW:

LOW POINT   Although I was doing everything conceivable to be kind and loving, I was constantly being punished for being what my parents considered, a bad or a naughty kid

HIGH POINT   Discovering that the punishment I received had nothing to do with me (who I was, or how I was behaving). My parents were attacking rejected aspects of their own personalities (Shadow) that were being mirrored by me. Every parent does this and every child suffers some degree of harm as a result.

LOW POINT   Feeling desperately isolated and alone at various points in my life

HIGH POINT  Acknowledging the role that I have played in keeping people at an emotionally-safe distance so that they couldn’t hurt me. Dissolving all the shame I have been carrying so that I could no longer be hurt by any other person. Allowing connection and love to flow, and tapping into an abundance of love

LOW POINT   Coming really, really close to giving up on the fight for shared custody of my daughter because the protracted court battle was causing her so much harm

HIGH POINT  Being assigned a wise and experienced judge who immediately identified a harmful pattern of deception and control. In contrast to the judges who had been assigned previously (they had little experience with Family Law), Justice M. settled a two year court case in minutes. I continued to play an important role in my daughter's life, and she was given the opportunity to receive love and support from both of her parents.

LOW POINT   Spending twenty years in couples’ counseling, yet feeling powerless to prevent one romantic relationship after another from disintegrating, in spite of my total commitment to the creation of a healthy relationship

HIGH POINT  Learning that although the psychologists, counselors, coaches and teachers I was working with exuded confidence, they could only lead me as far down a healing path as they themselves had traveled. Most had at least as much healing left to do as I had. Attending a retreat where the teachers were totally committed to their own healing journey and where the approach was so effective that I made as much progress in a single week as I’d made in the two preceding decades. (I went on to become one of these teachers)

LOW POINT   Struggling to sleep through the night or to get myself out of bed during those times when I was feeling the most depressed and isolated

HIGH POINT  Learning how to change the way that I’m feeling by re-patterning my thoughts and beliefs. Connecting to myself so deeply that I no longer depend on someone outside of me for feelings of acceptance, connection and love-worthiness. Bidding farewell to protracted loneliness and depression.

LOW POINT   Acknowledging my addiction to 'romantic' partnership (co-dependence addiction) and my uncontrollable use of sugary treats for emotional soothing

HIGH POINT  Liberating myself of my addictions and helping many of my clients gain freedom from their own addictions, compulsive behavioural patterns, and most significantly, their compulsive need to manage and to control.

LOW POINT   Recognising the anxiety in my own voice

HIGH POINT  Healing that anxiety and replacing it with self-acceptance and love.

LOW POINT   Feeling unworthy of payment from my clients

HIGH POINT  Healing my relationship with money and becoming comfortable with the value of my work.

LOW POINT   Living with the fear that I would never get to experience unconditional loving from a romantic partner

HIGH POINT  Meeting a woman of my dreams and experiencing 'Conscious' relationship with her

LOW POINT   Receiving the news that she had stage-4 cancer just as I was making plans to relocate so that we could reside closer to one another

HIGH POINT  Relocating anyway. Staying 'in the Present' while simultaneously doing everything conceivable to prolong her life, AND remaining relatively unattached to the outcome. Savoring each and every beautiful moment together and rapidly releasing my emotional attachment to the less beautiful moments.

Standard Plan:
Flexible Payment Schedule Available
$390CAD

Standard Plan:

  • Four healing conversations with Philip Be’er, Author, Mentor and Educator, over four weeks (using Zoom, Skype or Telephone)
  • Two fifteen-minute unscheduled conversations to address urgent challenges while they’re unfolding
  • One digital copy of “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment”. This book, about Secure Loving, contains almost the entire “Learning to Love Curriculum” including over 200 self-directed, Secure Loving exercises.
  • Lifetime access to my online UDEMY course ‘Peering into our Unconscious Minds - Reading Human Behaviour Like a Book'
  • Lifetime access to your choice of one additional online UDEMY course produced by Philip Be’er.
  • 10% Discount on any additional training, mentorship, therapy or coaching with Philip Be’er (that immediately follows this program).
Intensive Plan:
Flexible Payment Schedule Available
$1200CAD

Intensive Plan:

  • Twelve to Fifteen healing conversations with Philip Be’er, Author, Mentor and Educator, over four weeks (using Zoom, Skype or Telephone)
  • Unlimited fifteen-minute unscheduled conversations to address urgent challenges while they’re unfolding
  • One digital copy of “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment”. This book, about Secure Loving, contains almost the entire “Learning to Love Curriculum” including over 200 self-directed, Secure Loving exercises.
  • Lifetime access to my online UDEMY course ‘Peering into our Unconscious Minds - Reading Human Behaviour Like a Book'
  • Lifetime access to your choice of three additional online UDEMY courses produced by Philip Be’er.
  • 20% Discount on any additional training, mentorship, therapy or coaching with Philip Be’er (that immediately follows this program).

Bullying Prevention

Healing Trauma

Workplace Hostility

Preventing Abuse

Behavioral Change

Once Enrolled we will contact you to schedule an introductory conversation.

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Flexible Payment Options can be requested.

Full refund, no questions asked, if you feel dissatisfied at any point prior to the completion of your first conversation.

Prerequisites - Applicants need to:

  • Be open and ready to do Inner Work
  • Feel driven to transform their own lives and the lives of others
  • Be able to speak fluent English
  • Be unimpaired by any kind of substance
  • Be emotionally-resilient enough to do this kind of work
  • Be eighteen years or older
  • Be a suitable match for this particular program
  • Be able to afford the course

I've been the most depressed I've ever been this past fall. Working almost daily with coach/counselor Philip Be'er had been helping me enormously, and I think his perspective/approach could help you too. He's built on the work of Paul Ferrini (which to honest I wasn't particularly familiar with) and taken it (at least) one step further. It's really only for people who are ready and willing to take supreme responsibility for everything they say, do, feel and believe. Which as you are witnessing, most people are not and it feels really hard to be around them. Please give him a call for a free consultation and see if he resonates. One reason I really like working with him is he shares our common heritage and background, so I feel really understood and" gotten" by him. And he's a great listener and gives generously of his time. Work with him now while he's still available!

Within the last few years, I've been:

  • 1

    Helping Clients to Remove Impediments

    To Connection-Worthiness, & Love

  • 2

    Allowing them to Feel

    a) Less Alone, Lonely & Isolated
    b) Truly Loved, Accepted & Respected

  • 3

    Introducing them to

    The experience of Harmony, Clarity and Calm

  • 6

    Authoring a manual for Transformative Behavioural-Change

    Titled “Learning to Love – Your Guide to Personal Empowerment”.

  • 7

    Introducing powerful new techniques for self-discovery that include

    ‘Personal Compassion Maps’ & ‘Personality Spheres' and a Series of Online Courses

  • 6

    Developing 'Behavioral Loop Theory'

    Pioneering the relationship between ATTACHMENT & SHADOW

I took this course. The insight looking at my darkness/shadow side and transforming how I view my "perceived" flaws was amazing. Taking a look at my insecurities as a parent and human in interpersonal relationships was transformed from guilt and isolation to strength and validation and........ Community...... I no longer question if I'm good enough. I know I am. I have truly released myself from the "behavioural loops" that held me back from moving forward and claiming the life I want.... Acknowledging the life I have created and how very far I have come. I am released from shame and guilt of doubts and past "learning lessons" vs "mistakes." I am a good mother, advocate, woman and potential partner for someone when the time arrives.

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